A Fun Weekend

Vincenzo's

This past weekend was quite busy. My in laws came for a visit, which is always fun. Since they don't live here, we try to spend as much time together when they are here. Filling every minute with something fun and exciting to do. Our favorite thing to do? Going out to dinner! We had reservations all three night at new restaurants. On Saturday night, my mother in law suggested that we go to Vincenzo's for dessert and drinks. That was where we had our rehearsal dinner. Of course, we all readily consented. What better way to end an evening than to remember and relive our wedding weekend? However when we walked into the restaurant, I was unprepared for the wave of emotions that hit me. Who was that girl? Where did her innocence go? For certainly I am no longer that same carefree girl that stood before family and friends declaring her love for her betrothed. I am much more of a tainted soul now. More cautious, more weary. Yet as I walked into that restaurant and the memories flooded my soul, I felt a longing for the girl that once was. And I cried. Right there in the restaurant. However, even though I may have changed, the staff at Vincenzo's remembers me as the bride. For as soon as we sat down, a bottle of champagne was given to us, as well as a dessert prepared just for us. There was no bill. It was on the house. Which made me cry again. Sometimes I wonder if the well of tears will ever run dry? I feel as if I've no tears left. But despite my emotions running wild, it was a wonderful visit with my in laws. The time always passes too quickly.

This past weekend also was a reunion for all of the babies that had been patients in the NICU. It was held at the zoo and fortunately it was a beautiful day. I have been to this reunion three years in a row. And it never gets old. It is wonderfully heartwarming to see the babies that we took care of and loved grow up. As a nurse, we always wonder what happens to these babies once they are discharged. Are they happy, are they healthy? This reunion is an opportunity for us to see that. To realize that despite the long hours that our job not only saves lives, but changes them. And never is it more evident than on that day what a miracle life is.

Julie and Maddie

24 week twins

Katie and Marissa
24 weeks and 28 weeks