It happened

So....I picked up the boys from Mother's Day out this afternoon, and as I was packing up their stuff the teacher came over to me. "Do you have a minute Wendy?" Sure. "What's up?" She hesitated....and then, "Beckett did not have a good day. I had to put him in time out twice." Wait. What??? I couldn't even respond. My son? My Beckett? She went on to say that he was not at all himself. He never pushed/hit/bit anybody, but he just wouldn't listen. At all. She said he would just scream when asked to do something. I apologized profusely. Then went to my car and cried. A lot. I've never had this issue. Sure, he misbehaves for me. But never for church, or a babysitter, or school. I called Chris somewhat hysterical. He said I was being way too dramatic about this. That he's a toddler. This stuff happens. Not to my kids, though;) so then I texted the director. And didn't hear back form her. So now I've got an email in to her. I want to nip this in the bud. I don't want my son to be the BAD one. Because he's not. He really is the sweetest thing. I can ask him to do something and he will say, "sure." And if he DOESN'T want to do something he will say, "I've got an idea." He loves to be held still. Sit next to me, he'll say;) he loooooooves to take care of me. Always offering me something. "Here you go momma. This make you feel better." He wants so desperately to please me. To gain my approval. Sometimes I feel badly for him. That maybe he doesn't get enough attention. With Blake always sick, and requiring all of me. Beckett gets what is left over. And a lot of the times I have to ship him off to my mom or my sister so I can focus on Blake. Maybe he's had enough. Maybe HE needs the attention. Maybe I'm blowing this all out porportion. Whatever. He's a good boy. And I love him:)